New Zealand Girl Magazine are re-launching their 'Super Kitty' advice column! Sneak peak here for some of the questions and answers before they are launched at http://www.nzgirl.co.nz/
Q: SuperKitty, it's all gone horribly wrong!I have been dating this guy since 2000 exclusively, or so I thought. As it turns out he's been seeing me and another girl the whole time. I just want things to go back the way they were and I think it's crazy for me to even want to be with him. What is wrong with me?
A: Okay hon, lets start with the most important thing…THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH YOU! Nothing, zip, ziltch….yet. Unfortunately, we girls are, as you say, very forgiving, often to our own detriment. Allow me to evoke the famous George W Bush-ism last words before he invaded Iraq, “Fool me once shame on you, fool me twice shame on me.” This guy, to put it mildly, sounds like a creep. You wouldn’t let your best friend or little sister date someone like this, so why let yourself?
Think about it, you’ve said you can’t get over him but you will have to eventually. Why wait to do it later when you can do it now and possibly meet a fantastic doctor, working with underprivileged children, whom can cook, with a huge trust fund, great body and whom WON’T cheat?
Good luck! And remember. You deserve to be happy, rip that bandaid off quickly, not slowly and don’t dip your foot slowly into the pool, JUMP!
Q: My problem is that I wish I was rich SuperKitty, but I'm not. The job I have at the moment is great. The people are awesome, the job itself is fine, everything's great- except the pay. I need to find a way of bringing in some more money, but I'm not sure how?
A: I hear you sister, I often throw my hands up after the third parking ticket of the month and exclaim, ‘I wish I was rich…that would solve all my life problems!’
All jobs work on a basic supply and demand system with the added hassle of personal agendas, egos and hierarchies. Surprise surprise, the business world was established by men and therefore to get ahead you often need to be a man or behave a bit like one. So for us NZ girls, we can get the best education, be a great team worker, be great at our jobs, flirt a bit but we also need to know how to negotiate and stare down the barrel of a scary testosterone driven money game.
One good way to prepare yourself is to do your research. Arm yourself with industry standards of pay, speak to the institution or association in the field you work in and ask them how the pay scale works. Find out where the industry skill shortages are, how you can fulfil them? Maybe you need to get another qualification, move interstate or maybe you already have the skills and working in the high demand sector! Use this information to give yourself confidence when you approach your boss or to realise it’s time to find a new job!
Read the full articles and questions at www.nzgirl.co.nz SOON! And while you're there sign up and check out their great fashion, travel and useful girl power advice!
Friday, March 21, 2008
Thursday, March 13, 2008
NUMBER CRUNCH
New tenancy agreements will be more expensive
Ongoing tenancy agreements are restricted under law regarding often they can increase and by how much
National cash interest rates at 7.25%, the highest since December 1994
Victorian house prices remaining the same or increasing (depending on location)
A tough time to enter the property market
Domestic consumer services roles may decrease e.g. hospitality, retails
Exportable skills may be under greater demand e.g. niche manufacturing, financial services
Unions and employees campaign for pay increases to meet increased cost of living
Australian $0.90 (and over) = American $1.00
Great time to go overseas!
Petrol prices continue to rise, $1.50 to $3.00 a liter in the next 12 months
Basic goods will increase as transport and other costs increase
Australian Recession?
The buzz word of this month is ‘recession’. But what does it mean? How do we know when we are in one and how will it change your life?
In the purist of economics lingo a recession is either, a decline in a country's total gross domestic product (The total amount of value produced by the country in traded goods and services) or a negative real economic growth. These trends must continue for two or more consecutive quarters of a year.
Most economists are waiting to see which will affect Australia more, Americas ’ economic cold or Chinas’ economic growth steroids! Traditionally, America would have won but our location to China and other rapidly growing Asian and emerging countries such as Thailand , Vietnam and India could mean our business and services sectors will continue to grow supporting our economy during this period.
BUSINESS BOOK OF THE MONTH!
‘The Goal: A Process of Ongoing Improvement’, by Eliyahu M. Goldratt published in 1984.
A business book that is easy to read! AND extremely useful! Goldratt writes many of his books as a piece of fiction with main characters, stories and love stories while explaining interesting business ideas.
This book delves into Goldratt’s ‘Theory of Constraints’, a model to manage business processes he developed as a business consultant.
The main protagonist, Alex Rogo, the manager of a failing metalwork plant, learns how to manage bottlenecks (constraints) in a manufacturing process, project management and the art of negotiation.
Set in America the concepts can be easily transferred into any business whether it is small, large, in manufacturing or service orientated. If you want to run your own business or get a promotion this book is a MUST READ. Other books in the series include ‘It’s not luck’ (I’m onto this one now!) and ‘The Haystack Syndrome’.
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